Early-Start Potty Training by Dr. Linda Sonna
Below is the exact text of an article originally written by Carol Mell
of the Albuquerque Journal about Dr. Linda Sonna's
book 'Early-Start Potty Training.'
In 'The Potty Boot Camp: Basic Training for Toddlers,' I discuss the merits of toilet training early. Many of my opinions were backed by research done by Dr. Sonna
about Dr. Brazelton
and the diaper industry. The book is a fascinating read, and the author of this article summarizes it well.http://www.drsonna.org/ptresources.htm
January 26, 2006Squabble Over Potty Training
By Carol Mell
For the Albuquerque Journal
HUM: Some of us squabble with the garbage man, and some of us take on the military-industrial complex. In a quiet valley near Taos
, author and psychologist Linda Sonna
is challenging the great baby guru, physician Barry Brazelton
, and his corporate sponsors on the subject of potty training.
The question is not if but when. In her new book, "Early-Start Potty Training," Sonna
, who has written a dozen books for parents with children of every age, maintains that everything the establishment told us about when to potty train is a load of (fill in your favorite expletive) served up to get us to buy disposable diapers for an ever-longer time.
"The notion that later (training) is better has been pushed by pediatric spokesmen for the industry since the 1960s," Sonna
wrote. "Delaying has been a boon for the corporate bottom line. The truth about the ability of young toddlers and babies to learn to use the potty may be one of the best-kept secrets in America."Sonna
studied the work of Dr. Benjamin Spock who wrote the baby bibles of the 1940s and 1950s and those of Pampers-promoting Brazelton
, "a Harvard professor turned infomercial star."
"Spock used to say younger was better, 14 months was considered late for training," said Sonna
. "In 1961 everything changed and Spock began quoting Brazelton
. That was the year Brazelton
signed up with Procter & Gamble. He came out saying it was cruel to train babies too early."
She says with the production and marketing of ever-larger diapers, experts claim even 3-, 4- and 5-year-olds
can remain untrained if they have not demonstrated that "mysterious state of readiness."
"The knowledge that it is possible to train early has been completely wiped out," Sonna
said. "Babies are born signaling, the way they do when they are hungry. Think about it. Giving a signal that it's time to eliminate is a baby's survival tool. They need to be in a warm dry place with others. If they were always wet that wouldn't happen. It is up to us to learn to read the signals."Sonna
lays out a plan for training babies from birth. Parents who recognize their baby's cues simply hold them over the pot, making a little noise like "pss
" as a signal.Diaperless
babies are a fad, Sonna
said, but she takes a gentler approach. For most babies, 6 to 12 months is perfect. If it sounds crazy, even Sonna
had to switch paradigms.
"When I was writing my first book on potty training I thought it sounded cruel to start a baby so early. I was mystified by diaperless
training, but I read it, and it all fell into place. In Mexico, there were women with naked babies in their rebozos
that were never wet. I had seen it in China, too."
she heard Hispanic parents talking. To them, "right on schedule" meant fully trained at 12 months.
She wrote an early training chapter for her first book in 2002, but the editors cut it out. No one could get an article in a baby magazine because they were published by the disposables industry, Sonna
said. Now, totally diaperless
training, though treated in the media as a freak show idea, got the word out that early training is possible. Sonna's
complaint was that other books didn't talk about hygiene, the real reason for potty training.
"If your elderly parent sat in a dirty diaper you'd be horrified," she said, "but Brazelton
views parents' willingness to allow youngsters to wet and soil themselves for a couple of extra years as a sign of respect for their bodies." If your children are too old for diapers and you are still too young, why should you care? Because diapers are the third leading component of the nation's landfills, said Sonna
. If you add to the tons of untreated sewage the fact that diapers are made of trees and toxic chemicals, the environmental picture is not pretty.Sonna
has friends in China who tell her that the disposable push is on there with the attendant advice to wait. This is bad news in a country where infant and toddler clothing was simply made with a big opening in the crotch to make things easy. "The world will be drowning in untreated waste," said Sonna
With eight books in five years, Sonna
feels "Early-Start Potty Training" and "Parent's Guide to Raising Siblings," due out in April, are her gifts to the world.
"For little me to take on a multimillion dollar corporation, the biggest in the world, was scary but I'm getting an amazing response. The book is selling well. "
Check out www.DrSonna.org
to see this and other books.
is a freelance writer who lives in Taos
, NM. You can email her at email@example.com.